The Power of Whole Brain Thinking

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Posted on 27th January 2011 by Krishna Gupta in Personality Development

How We Think Matters

The image of the Titanic sinking, immortalized in a movie is a defining visual of how the unimaginable can become possible and how ‘rock solid’ assumptions are mistaken for facts. Those closest to the Titanic were the ones most convinced of her invincibility.The Power of Whole Brain Thinking -By-Prashad Deshpande

“We believe that the boat is unsinkable.” Philip Franklin, Vice-President of White Star Line, 8-00 a.m., April 15, 1912.

“I cannot imagine any condition which would cause the ship to founder. I cannot conceive of any vital disaster happening to this vessel. Modern shipbuilding has gone beyond that.” ? Captain Edward Smith.

We all, at some point of time, fall a victim to the Titanic mindset, “Since I am so sure, I can’t be wrong,” and some of us most of the times. This is because the way we think influences the way we behave and we all ‘see’ the world through the prism of our own attitudes shaped by the forces of nature and nurture. The first step to make a shift in our mindset is to understand how we think and our dominant preferences.

Whole Brain Thinking Background
In the 16th century, when Rene Descartes declared “I think, therefore I am” he put a spotlight on the importance of thinking. Four hundred years later, Ned Herrmann took this question further when he experienced an epiphany after reading an article by Henry Mintzberg in the HBR. The article asked a powerful question that haunted him ? “How come managers can be so smart and yet dull at the same time?”

Ned Herrmann was a polymath, a singer (he sang at Carnegie Hall), a sculptor, a physicist by training from Carnegie Mellon, and he was also the head of Management Development at GE, at that time.

This question intrigued him in the sense it was a question vital to help him understand himself better.

GE supported Ned’s experiments and applications and the pursuit of the ‘aha’ of the Mintzberg Moment during the late ’70s, and it was these activities that led to the development of the whole brain concept and the Herrmann Brain Dominant Instrument HBDI®.

The Whole Brain Thinking Concept
Ned Herrmann combined Sperry’s work and MacLean’s research (both renowned Nobel Prize winning scientists) to create his Whole Brain Model, which emphasizes the fact that there are really four parts of the brain where dominances exist: Cerebral left, Limbic Left, Limbic Right, and Cerebral Right. These four styles or ‘mindsets’ are known as quadrants A, B, C, and

This is of course a metaphorical mode that describes how each of us has a preferred way and mode of thinking that affects the way we receive and process information. The awareness of one’s own thinking style and that of others, combined with the ability to act outside of one’s preferred thinking style is known as Whole Brain Thinking*

Tuning in
For a good metaphor to understand how the Whole Brain Thinking model works, consider for a moment that our brain is a radio and that we have our favorite stations that we are ‘tuned to ’ and listen to more often. These favorite stations are our dominant thinking preferences ? we all have at least one dominant preference.
The model helps us understand which ‘stations’ we have a preference for and which we ‘avoid’, and there is nothing right or wrong if some of us prefer tuning into different stations. It also tells us that each of us has an access to each station. If we don’t listen to a station often, it may require some work for us to tune in. The faster we are able to tune into the right station given the situation, the more effective we will be. We don’t need to stay tuned in to stations we do not prefer but tune in only when required.* (for more please read ‘The Creative Brain’ by Ned Herrmann.)

Whole Brain Thinking and the HBDI®
The Herrmann Brain Dominance Instrument (HBDI®) is the instrument that accurately identifies one’s thinking preferences. This instrument is very easy to administer given that it is online ,takes only 20 minutes to fill in and provides an accurate, visual , validated profile of how one thinks and more importantly, how one thinks under pressure.

Over 2 million people world-wide have been administered the profile and in India, we have administered the profile to over 1,200 managers from 32 companies.

Examples of HBDI profiles reflecting the dominance of each quadrant. The white lines indicate how the individual thinks under stress conditions.

The inner concentric circle indicates avoidance in that quadrant, the circle next to that indicates secondary thinking preferences and the last two concentric circles indicate primary thinking preferences in that quadrant.

People Behind Profiles – the ‘Adamant’ CEO
The funny part of our consulting work is helping managers understand the implications of their profiles. Every profile is a ‘story’ and in interpreting the story, people gain insights that help them make significant changes in the way they approach issues and change their behavior toward the team, colleagues, clients, and at home.

Please refer to the profiles above.
The CEO of a large manufacturing company was a ‘high blue’ ? a very analytical, fact based, and precise person. He was impatient with people who took too long to get to the point. He was also very sure of his approach, had a high focus on task and numbers, and saw no need to change. After all, he was very successful having steered the company to new heights, the quintessential ‘Captain of the Titanic”. Under pressure, he became even more analytical and as his people would say privately he was the ‘iceman’ apparently bereft of emotion. Not completely true of course, he was emotional, but he prided himself on his ability to keep his feelings under check.

He ‘saw’ the world very differently from his deputy – the Vice President of Service who was more people focused, believed in relationships, and who was very approachable. He respected the abilities of his deputy, however, but was worried that he was too soft on people. On their one-on-one’s, he repeatedly suggested to his deputy that he should be tougher and develop the ability to take ‘hard’ decisions.
Their weekly meetings were becoming increasingly strained and unproductive and when both of them completed their HBDI profiles, it was as if the lights went on ? a ‘aha’ moment.
They both saw how differently they ‘viewed’ the world and this acceptance of differences made the CEO open to change. The CEO requested his deputy to address the monthly staff meetings, which earlier, the CEO used to do. The outcome of this ‘small’ change was that while it was very difficult for the CEO in the initial meetings to control his impatience,? his deputy took 15 minutes to ‘warm up’ ? he found that when he spoke later, the team was much more receptive to his messages. For the deputy, he began to understand the importance of being succinct and precise.

Harnessing Potential
The power of the Whole Brain Thinking model is the ability to help people and teams change their mindsets. The HBDI is a cognitive tool, it is visual, it does not pigeonhole you in a box nor label you as a certain type, and there lies its almost universal acceptance.
A greater realization for people is that there are four equally valid and relevant ways of thinking and the goal is really to stretch oneself into quadrants where one has an avoidance and become ‘situationally whole’ when required.

We believe that the larger goal for individuals, teams, and organizations is to move three levels to harness the full potential of their people and teams: From the first level of just ‘tolerating’ differences to the next level of ‘accepting’ differences to third level of ‘ honouring’ differences.

This journey can be extremely rewarding in terms of personal growth as well as for organizations in terms of unleashing the power of true collaborative working.

Author: Prashad Deshpande from Silicon India

Half Empty or Half Full? By Scott Allen

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Posted on 25th January 2011 by Krishna Gupta in Business Intelligence |Personality Development

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This image was Selin Jessa’s entry in the 2010 Positive Posters International Poster Competition. Here’s her description:
Consider that technically, the glass is completely full – half of air and half of water. Just as you can perceive a glass of water in different ways, I think we need to take a moment and look at our lives from a different perspective – a more optimistic one. Our lives right now may seem too stressful, too hard or too busy but we can make every day better for ourselves and for one another. A positive, optimistic attitude is more than seeing the bright side of a situation, it’s believing in a brighter future.
As an entrepreneur, you’re an optimist, whether you realize it or not. Simply put, the odds are against you, and everybody knows it. But you think – know, even, deep down in your gut – that you can beat those odds.
Optimism alone isn’t enough for success, but it’s a key factor in it. Dr. Martin Seligman, a researcher at the University of Pennsylvania, has conducted more than 600 studies that demonstrate, consistently, that people with an optimistic explanatory style are more likely to be successful, in most circumstances. For instance, a study among life insurance agents showed that the most optimistic salespeople sold a whopping 88% more than the most pessimistic ones.
However, optimism isn’t about being delusional. The most successful optimists still have a firm grip on reality – they are able to assess the situation, and then generate, evaluate and explore their options. This is wherein the optimist’s greatest strength lies. Pessimists tend to quit considering alternatives once they believe the outcome to be inevitable. So, of course, their predictions become self-fulfilling, re-affirming their world view. Optimists keep moving forward because they believe there are always options and possibilities that may not yet have been discovered.
At this point, you may be thinking, “That all sounds great, but how do I become more optimistic? My business/life/whatever sucks right now, and I just can’t see past that.”
Pessimists tend to see problems as permanent (“We’re never going to hit our numbers”) and pervasive(“These leads all stink”). Optimists see problems as temporary (“This quarter’s been rough, but we have some new things in the pipeline for next quarter”) and specific (“There may still be some gems in there that just haven’t shown themselves because the timing isn’t right yet”).
So how do you get from permanent/pervasive to temporary/specific?
Ask yourself a few questions:
Do you have a crystal ball? Is the future ever truly certain? Of course not…at least not from your perspective. We’re not trying to get into a philosophical debate here – even if the future is predestined – you don’t know what it is.
What are some possible positive outcomes? Explore the possibilities, no matter how unlikely they may seem.
What can I do to influence those outcomes? It doesn’t matter if you can’t ensure the outcome – what steps can you take that would simply increase the likelihood of any of those desirable outcomes?
What are the exceptions? Whatever your negative generality is, find the exceptions and study them. What makes them different? How can you find more of those exceptions and attract them into your experience?
What’s the third option? Pessimists tend to see things in black-and-white, while optimists see shades of gray. Any time you think there are only two choices, consider all the alternatives – yes or no (maybe), left or right (reverse), fries or onion rings (neither).
Change won’t happen overnight, and it won’t happen just because you consciously want it to happen. But transformation is possible if you practice it on a regular basis.
“Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.” – Lao Tzu

This image was Selin Jessa’s entry in the 2010 Positive Posters International Poster Competition. Here’s her description:
Consider that technically, the glass is completely full – half of air and half of water. Just as you can perceive a glass of water in different ways, I think we need to take a moment and look at our lives from a different perspective – a more optimistic one. Our lives right now may seem too stressful, too hard or too busy but we can make every day better for ourselves and for one another. A positive, optimistic attitude is more than seeing the bright side of a situation, it’s believing in a brighter future.
As an entrepreneur, you’re an optimist, whether you realize it or not. Simply put, the odds are against you, and everybody knows it. But you think – know, even, deep down in your gut – that you can beat those odds.
Optimism alone isn’t enough for success, but it’s a key factor in it. Dr. Martin Seligman, a researcher at the University of Pennsylvania, has conducted more than 600 studies that demonstrate, consistently, that people with an optimistic explanatory style are more likely to be successful, in most circumstances. For instance, a study among life insurance agents showed that the most optimistic salespeople sold a whopping 88% more than the most pessimistic ones.
However, optimism isn’t about being delusional. The most successful optimists still have a firm grip on reality – they are able to assess the situation, and then generate, evaluate and explore their options. This is wherein the optimist’s greatest strength lies. Pessimists tend to quit considering alternatives once they believe the outcome to be inevitable. So, of course, their predictions become self-fulfilling, re-affirming their world view. Optimists keep moving forward because they believe there are always options and possibilities that may not yet have been discovered.
At this point, you may be thinking, “That all sounds great, but how do I become more optimistic? My business/life/whatever sucks right now, and I just can’t see past that.”
Pessimists tend to see problems as permanent (“We’re never going to hit our numbers”) and pervasive(“These leads all stink”). Optimists see problems as temporary (“This quarter’s been rough, but we have some new things in the pipeline for next quarter”) and specific (“There may still be some gems in there that just haven’t shown themselves because the timing isn’t right yet”).
So how do you get from permanent/pervasive to temporary/specific?
Ask yourself a few questions:Do you have a crystal ball? Is the future ever truly certain? Of course not…at least not from your perspective. We’re not trying to get into a philosophical debate here – even if the future is predestined – you don’t know what it is.What are some possible positive outcomes? Explore the possibilities, no matter how unlikely they may seem.What can I do to influence those outcomes? It doesn’t matter if you can’t ensure the outcome – what steps can you take that would simply increase the likelihood of any of those desirable outcomes?What are the exceptions? Whatever your negative generality is, find the exceptions and study them. What makes them different? How can you find more of those exceptions and attract them into your experience?What’s the third option? Pessimists tend to see things in black-and-white, while optimists see shades of gray. Any time you think there are only two choices, consider all the alternatives – yes or no (maybe), left or right (reverse), fries or onion rings (neither).
Change won’t happen overnight, and it won’t happen just because you consciously want it to happen. But transformation is possible if you practice it on a regular basis.
“Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.” – Lao Tzu

What does your personality add to the relationship? by Krishna Gupta

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Posted on 31st December 2010 by Krishna Gupta in Macinfosoft - Official |Personality Development

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Your particular characteristics and your attitude toward life have an impact on the relationships you have with others —including your partner.To work as a couple, you need to know how, individually, you can benefit the whole.

One thing in particular that may be causing, or might cause future problems in your relationships, is your level of contempt. Contempt arises from an overdose of criticism. By being too critical, you may be hurting your partner personally and weakening the bonds of the relationship. Couples who are able to give feedback constructively tend to have a more successful relationship because they aren’t weakened by their partner’s comments. If you can find out the underlying cause of your critical nature, you will likely be on track to finding the full potential and joy of a committed relationship.

There are five dimensions of your personality that are crucial to forming and sustaining committed relationships. In order to develop a strong relationship, you need to be mature, understanding, flexible, non-avoidant, and have low relationship anxiety.
Maturity
Maturity is a great asset to any relationship. It really says that you are ready to think about another person as much as you think about yourself. It also says that you are responsible for your commitment to another person.This will help your relationship, especially if your partner also has a high level of maturity and can appreciate your commitment to the
relationship.

Flexibility
Flexibility is key to the success of any intimate relationship. If you can roll with the changes then you will be able to adapt to the struggles you may endure in your relationship. With greater flexibility, you also have a sense of peace about you, since you’re not likely to be fazed by the smaller things in life.

Positive Emotionality
Negative emotionality has no positive place in a relationship. Destructive types of behaviors are usually hiding many different areas of fear. It is best to keep yourself from worrying to prevent any difficulties from developing in your relationship, which is why keeping a positive attitude about things can help your relationship.

Non-avoidance
Avoidance is damaging to a relationship. It says that you are detached from your partner and that you probably fear intimacy with another. It may also mean that you enjoy your own company more than you enjoy the company of your partner.

Lack of anxiety
Too much anxiety is not healthy for a relationship. The anxiety is often a hidden fear of being alone. It is best to allow the partnership to breathe and give your partner space to pursue their own goals while supporting them.

Where is the conflict in your relationship? by Krishna Gupta

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Posted on 24th December 2010 by Krishna Gupta in Macinfosoft - Official |Personality Development

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I was talking about improving relationship qualities and assessing them to take it to the next level. There is something called Relationship IQ. We have heard of IQ, EIQ (EQ) but what is this Relationship IQ?

If you are as excited as I’m then keep reading to unravel the hidden mysteries behind Relationship IQ. Some people score higher in this field but yet there is always more room to improve.

There are 7 key areas, or points of conflict, that most people identify as the cause of their break-ups. They may sound familiar. They are related to sex, money, in-laws, infidelity, other friends, work, and quality time together.

While these seven areas seem relatively common, what many people may not realize is that these conflict  areas are not always the root of the problem. Oftentimes they are more symptomatic of underlying issues — issues that can undermine even the strongest of relationships. But in order to resolve conflicts in your relationship, you need to clearly define the areas that are causing you, or have the potential to cause, the biggest problems between you and your partner.

Once you do that, you can figure out whether you can solve your problems through better communication, by making changes to your behavior, or  with problem-solving techniques. By focusing on fixing each and any of these conflict areas, the relationship
is better equipped to flourish.

You may find that simply acknowledging any problems may make a positive difference in your relationship. Or, you may find that it will take a lot more work, using communication, behavior modification, and problem solving. The areas that are checked below are contributing to the conflict in your relationship.

Money
Financial concerns cause problems for many couples. Typically it isn’t just the money that is the issue, it is usually what the money is spent on or the emotional value the money holds to each person, which may be different for you and your partner. You’ll want to make sure that you continue to have a healthy relationship about money with your partner and to make sure that you are both open in discussing if anything does come up around monetary issues.

In-laws
In-laws are often a source of conflict for couples regardless of whether or not you and
your partner like your in-laws. Stress concerning in-laws more often revolves not around
specific personas, but more around the time and responsibility that is demanded of the
couple by the in-laws. Jealousy and guilt — feelings that you should be spending more time
with your own parents, rather than your in-laws — may develop as well.
Understanding that you’ll want to make sure that you continue to have a healthy relationship around  your in-laws with your partner and to make sure that you are both open in discussing if anything does come up around this topic.

Infidelity
Infidelity is a serious problem that has the potential to dissolve ties and weaken or
destroy the foundation of a relationship. Typically it isn’t just the infidelity that is the issue; it is the trust that is broken and the poor communication between the couple that is the catalyst for the cheating, or that results from the cheating.

Friends
A couple’s friends can oftentimes cause stress on their relationship. These stresses can be
caused by different personalities and whether or not you like or get along with your
partner’s friends. But oftentimes the issue goes a bit deeper. You and your partner
might get jealous when the other makes plans with or spends time with friends. And
these feelings can affect your relationship in a bad way.

Work

Work is a common source of conflict for couples. Typically it isn’t just the work that
is the issue; it is the allocation of time spent at work and the importance placed on work that can get in the way of your relationship.

Quality Time
Quality time is a source of conflict for many couples. This is most often because failing
to make time together — often due to busy schedules or competing interests and priorities — can leave partners wanting more.

How to avoid pessimism? by Krishna Gupta

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Posted on 22nd December 2010 by Krishna Gupta in Macinfosoft - Official |Personality Development

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Take Action! Open your heart!

When negativity builds up between you and your partner, a great way to identify
the problem, open your heart, and release the negativity that’s arisen from it is to
write what we call A Feeling Letter. Here’s how.

1. Write an open emotional letter to your partner. You may or may not decide to
give it to your partner, but when you write it, assume that you are not going to
give it to them.

A few examples to include in your letter may be to write:
* how your partner makes you feel
* what they have done to hurt you (without blaming or accusing)
* what you wish they would do more of (without demanding)
* what you treasure about them
* what your hopes for the future are and how your partner is included
Include in this letter any feelings your have of anger, sadness, fear, remorse, or
love.

2. Respond to your letter the way you would like to be supported and answered.
Doing this exercise will give you a feeling for what it is like to be on the receiving
end of your emotional communication. You may learn something about your own
ability to communicate in a way that allows your partner to respond well.
Sometimes we communicate our more intense emotions in a way that makes it
almost impossible for our partners to respond in a way that makes both of you
feel good. After the experience of responding to your own letter, you may want
to rewrite the letter in such a way that it fosters a less hostile or charged
environment for a clear exchange between the two of you.

3. If you are comfortable with your letter, share the letters with your partner so
they understand more about how you feel, the way you like to be supported and
nurtured, and your understanding of their position in your relationship.